April 11, 2022
early april weekending
posted by soe 1:28 am
Finally, we got back toward having some pleasant weather, so I spent quite a bit of this weekend outside.
Friday evening, we had drinks on the patio of our local yuppie grocery store/bar.
Saturday, we spent the first part of the day at our garden, doing general maintenance with other gardeners. Rudi and I weeded pathways and raked, and we felt very good about our efforts by the time we headed home in the early afternoon. In the evening, we headed to the ballpark for the Mets-Nationals game and our friend Sarah’s birthday. The Mets’ Pete Alonzo hit a grand slam, which was very exciting for me, but the Nationals failed to recognize Sarah’s special day by playing their best. The temperature kept dropping, so by the end of the ninth we were all well bundled into the winter clothing we’d brought and aching for everyone who came to bat to get out quickly. But overall it was a lovely way to spend a Saturday in April.
Today, I got to sleep in a bit before heading to the farmers market. We later enjoyed the ramps (wild leeks) I picked up in omelettes for supper. In the afternoon, I headed over to Virginia to return a library book. I picked up some doughnuts from the yuppie doughnut shop and four books from the library, and then spent some time sipping a fabulous seasonal drink — a peaches n’ cream tea latte — and reading in the sun (and wind) on the patio of the local coffeehouse. We had our monthly video call with friends on the west coast in the evening and then rounded out the night with some tv.
How was your weekend?
April 8, 2022
daughter, team outing, and hershey’s eggs
posted by soe 1:33 am
Three beautiful things from my past week:
1. A new baby in our friends’ lives.
2. Playing Topgolf, which was like a mix between a driving range and video game golfing, with my volleyball team on a rainy evening.
3. Finding my favorite Easter chocolates at Target.
What’s been beautiful in your world lately?
April 7, 2022
unraveled (and unphotographed)
posted by soe 1:52 am
I just finished The One Hundred Years of Lenni and Margot by Marianne Cronin and can’t get past the ugly crying and nose blowing to take a photo for today’s post.
If you like intergenerational friendships or were a teen fan of Lurlene McDaniel and want something that feels the same, but with less melodrama, I recommend checking it out.
Sock picture next week.
April 6, 2022
cherry trees at night
posted by soe 1:33 am
I mentioned last week that we’d stopped by Hains Point one night to see the blossoms as we were driving back from Virginia.
Going at night made it less obvious that the trees were past peak-flowering — leaves and blooms blended in the more monochromatic light — but you also lost the lovely pinks that draw people to them in the first place.
I’m glad that we saw the blossoms in any format this year and seeing the cherry trees at night had been a bucket list item. But as with many things you look forward to for a long time (like room service), it pales in comparison to the imagination. Next year, I’ll be back in the daylight.
April 5, 2022
top ten books i read in 2021
posted by soe 1:17 am
So, I fell seven summaries short of telling you about all the the books I read last year. And since I hadn’t finished sharing, I just didn’t bother to give you my ten favorites from 2021. But, there’s nothing like a freebie week for Top Ten Tuesdays over at That Artsy Reader Girl in early April to provide the inspiration to rectify that oversight.
So here are the ten books I most enjoyed reading last year:
- T.J. Klune’s Under the Whispering Door: In back to back years, Klune has penned the novel that I loved best. In this one, a grey, unlikeable man dies, but does not move on. A girl comes to collect him and brings him to a cafe, where a gentle bear of a man explains that it is a safe place for him to adjust to being dead, and that when he is ready, upstairs there is a door that leads on. But what happens if in this final wayfinding station between the worlds, he finally finds a life?
- Jo & Laurie by Margaret Stohl and Melissa de la Cruz: If you read the story of Joe, Beth, Meg, and Amy and got to the end and thought, “Perfect! Everyone ended up just with the people they should have!” you can just move along to the next entry. If, on the other hand, you fumed at a woman who’d been dead for 100 years for not letting two obvious characters explore things further, this book, written from the perspectives of Jo (the author of an alternative version of Little Women) and Laurie (her BFF, who knows her better than anyone), might let you explore some of those feelings.
- Class Act by Jerry Craft: In this companion middle-grade graphic novel to the award-winning New Kid, Craft centers his story on Jordan’s friend, Drew, who is now in seventh grade and his second year at the prep school where he and Jordan are some of the only Black kids enrolled. This year, they’ll deal with colorism, remaining friends with someone whose family has a lot of privilege, and the question about why all the Black kids hang out together, among others. Another beautiful story about aggressions and microaggressions.
- Incense and Sensibility by Sonali Dev: In the third of Dev’s The Rajes series, a modern quartet of novels that reimagine some of her favorite Austen novels, but featuring six Indian-American cousins, we focus on the eldest cousin, Yash, who is running for governor of California. After an assassination attempt which lands his bodyguard in a coma, Yash begins to have panic attacks. His sisters convince him to go and see their dear friend, India, who with her mother and sister, runs a yoga studio and is an expert at helping clients deal with mental health issues. Little do they know that he once long ago fell deeply in love with India, only to end up fake engaged to his own childhood friend. Way less soapy than I make it out to be. And, as with all of Dev’s books in this series, inspired by the Austen novel, rather than being a strict retelling.
- Serena Singh Flips the Script by Sonya Lalli: Set in D.C., this is a sweet contemporary novel about a young woman who’s trying to find her way in the world and succeeding on the face of it, with a kick-ass new position at her dream job. But as a first-generation American, she’s struggling with issues with her parents. She’s also having a hard time making friends — and goes on a couple of hilarious friend-dates during the course of the story. And then there’s her love life — there’s the cute photographer from her sister’s wedding, but there’s also the guy she used to be in love with, who’s subsequent marriage has broken up, but with whom she swears she just wants to rekindle a friendship. Multi-layered and well-thought out. Recommended.
- Murder on Cold Street by Sherry Thomas: The latest in the Lady Sherlock series, this Christmassy story sees Charlotte, Mrs. Watson, and Lord Ingram having to solve a murder that Inspector Treadles has been accused of. I adore this series and highly recommend it.
- Sal and Gabi Break the Universe by Carlos Hernandez: A cute middle-grade story about a boy, who in his grief at losing his mother a couple years earlier, accidentally found a way to access the multiverse. When he starts at a new school, a girl with an eye for details figures out what’s happening, and they set out on a series of adventures that just might destroy the world.
- Michelle Obama’s Becoming: The fact that it took me nearly three years to finish listening to this memoir should not remotely count against it. Instead, take away how comforting it was to have Michelle pop in to tell me bits and pieces of her story — a remarkably rewarding life, but not remotely what she would have chosen for herself — over occasional nights washing dishes after being downsized, as I was struggling with a job that asked a lot of me, and, finally, during the pandemic. She’d talk about how infuriating her husband could be, how stressful her jobs had been, and the biggest challenges she’d faced. And I’d feel a little less alone at 3 a.m.
- Recipe for Persuasion by Sonali Dev: In a tribute to the Jane Austen classic, the second in this interlocking series of four stories about an Indian-American family focuses on Ashna, a chef, who is paired in a celebrity cooking contest with Rico Silva, a soccer star, who just happens to have been her secret high school boy friend — and the boy her father sent away because he wasn’t good enough for her. I love this series and recommend it to everyone.
- Nancy Drew: The Palace of Wisdom by Kelly Thompson and illustrated by Jenn St. Onge: In this graphic novel adaptation of the famous young sleuth, Nancy is summoned from River Heights by an anonymous note that hints that her mother’s death years before is more than just an accident. Now she’ll need to team up with her old friends, George, Bess, and Joe and Frank Hardy to solve that mystery, another that dates back to the same time as her mother’s, and some that are much more recent. Nancy Drew meets Veronica Mars. Highly enjoyable.
Have you read any of these books? Got any books you’ve read recently that you’ve loved?
April 4, 2022
first weekending of april
posted by soe 1:50 am
It was another quiet weekend around the Burrow:
We watched the UConn women win … and then lose.
We bought plants, and I put them all in the ground.
I finished a book and started a new one.
We stopped at a coffeehouse I hadn’t been to since the pandemic began (they were only open for takeout with curtailed hours) and sat on the patio in the sun.
We went to the grocery store and the farmers market.
I turned the heel of my sock and started working on the foot.
We watched Better Nate than Ever, which was sweet.
We watched and heard the news and did not turn away.
We went on.