Things were warmer in D.C. this week, which, I’m not going to lie, makes it easier to find things beautiful. Here are three such moments:

1. It has been the chilliest winter in years, which means that I utterly misled people about playing outdoor volleyball through the colder months. But last Sunday tickled 50 degrees and I summoned folks to the Mall for the first time since mid-November. (The beach venue at the Paris Olympics has nothing on where I get to play…)

2. Rudi mentioned on my birthday that his social media was showing the year’s first snowdrops. The place where I’ve seen them most often in the past has kept their gates locked in recent years, so I had to wait an extra week until someplace more well trafficked popped.

3. It was so warm earlier on Wednesday that I headed up to the park to read and write some correspondence before meeting my friend Chris for a drink and a catch up. By the Spanish Steps, the daffodil heads were visible. Later than most years, but coming. And soon. (As an aside, cherry blossom peak bloom has been predicted for a month from today through the end of March. Squee!)

How about you? What’s been beautiful in your world lately? Oh! And before I forget, there is a Great Planetary Alignment this evening right after sunset (in D.C. Peak time varies based on your location. Check the link). Head someplace with a clear view to the west just after sunset to see all the planets of our solar system arrayed on the same plane. (A few will require access to binoculars or a telescope to view, but the rest should be visible with the naked eye.)

Three beautiful, birthdayish things from my past week:

1. I spent five hours at the pool hall with friends last Friday. We ate pizza and cupcakes and had many, many games of pool, with loud cheering and high fives for successful shots and close failures.

2. Texts, calls, gifts, and cards poured in through the weekend, from a container of muffins left on the stairs to our apartment to several boxes that the cats were delighted to claim as their own. (I kept the contents.)

3. On the morning of my birthday, Rudi and I went out for a doughnut breakfast and then headed to the zoo to meet the new pandas, who made their public debut late last month. It was a bluebird day, if a bit chilly, so the outdoor animals were largely recharging in the sun. It’s been a couple years since I’ve been to the zoo, which I always enjoy, particularly when it’s less crowded.

How about you? What’s been beautiful in your world lately?

Three beautiful things from my past week:

1. D.C. got about six inches of snow on Tuesday, most of which has already melted, which is the best kind of storm around here. The kids got a day off, everything got to look pretty, and then it all warmed up and went away.

2. I needed three of us to show up for volleyball in the storm on Tuesday night in order not to forfeit, and I got four. On my walk to the game, I got to see college kids sledding and playing football in the snow, and two field mice raced in front of me, trying to get the first footprints along the virgin sidewalk canvas. And Jess gave me a ride back to the metro, which meant I didn’t have to catch the last train home. (We did not win, but I can’t have everything.)

3. Rudi and I picked up pizza and cannoli as a pre-birthday celebration tonight and then curled up with the cats to watch sitcoms, including three old Valentine’s Day episodes. It was a gentle way to usher out the end of my 50th birthday year, particularly since Rudi will be out of town for my actual birthday. (Never fear; friends and I are heading out for the night.)

How about you? What’s been beautiful in your world lately?

Three beautiful things from my past week:

1. D.C. was expecting icy weather last night, just as Rudi was supposed to be driving back from western New York. So, when we talked Tuesday, we agreed that if it was prudent, he’d stop along the way and come home today instead. Between the team wrapping its race early to get a jump on the storm, a slightly slower moving front than originally forecast, and temperatures that stayed warmer later, he was able to make it home earlier than expected and before what turned out just to be rain.

2. It has been a hot minute since I played basketball, but that’s what I signed up to coach this winter as my volunteer gig. It felt good to be able to demonstrate to the elementary school boys why it was they should learn how to do layups and not just take the jumpers that seem to have become the mainstay of today’s NBA.

3. Since it was so nice out after my morning volleyball game wrapped up Saturday, I decided to pedal home via the neighborhood just north of mine, where a bakery I’d enjoyed during the pandemic has moved to. Its line reminded me of going into New Haven for pizza or Italian ice when I was a kid, and it’s nice to see that people still have the patience to wait for tasty treats. (Also, the passionfruit doughnut was delicious!)

Three beautiful things from my past week:

1. My mother’s older brother died last weekend after a fall, a week short of his 78th birthday. When I was born, he drew up a complete astrological chart for me. He aspired to be a good uncle, giving me all sorts of fun gifts when I was a kid, including my first dictionary, my only football swag (a balaclava for the Miami Dolphins, the team he supported when he lived in Florida) a microscope, and a magic kit. He had a black dog named Telly, whom we all loved only slightly less than our own dog, Obe. He took my grandmother and me to New York City to see the ballet at Lincoln Center and my brother and me for ice cream when we spent the night with him and my aunt when I was in middle school.

Uncle David was having a challenging battle with Alzheimer’s, so ultimately this may have been the kindest death we could have hoped for, with my aunt and my cousins and my mom all getting to say goodbye.

2. After having to postpone multiple times because one or all three of us were sick, Sarah finally got to come over to meet the kittens. They took to her right away and were happy to be picked up and cuddled, which isn’t always the case, so it felt like the delay gave us the perfect moment in time.

3. Rudi and I went to see The Art of the Brick, a Lego exhibition by Nathan Sawaya. The pieces ranged from scale replicas of wild animals, sculptures, and interpretations of great art from around the world, including one of the heads from Easter Island, which required more than 75,000 Legos to complete.

How about you? What’s been beautiful in your world lately?

Three beautiful things from my past week:

1. The team lost last week, so didn’t have a game, but we gathered for dinner and drinks tonight to celebrate Sergio’s impending second baby and, it turns out, Katie’s new job and new house.

2. Our new season of volunteering began this week and, for the winter, I’m coaching basketball with Aroush and some other folks. We had about 25 kids (ages 5–13) show up, which ran us a bit ragged for the hour, but it felt good to be back on the court with them.

3. Rudi and I caught Better Man before it left local theaters this week. I really like Robbie Williams’ music so was happy to spend a couple hours listening to it, the cgi monkey was an interesting symbolic move, and the script did a very good job of depicting imposter syndrome and depression.

How about you? What’s been beautiful in your world lately?